love

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection. Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none. William Shakespeare.

lunes, 15 de abril de 2013

encadenada a mis pensamientos

Ciertas partes de mi ya han muerto.Otras siguen ahí esperando al salir para sacar lo mejor de mí pero que se acaba convirtiendo en un completo desastre. Ya no voy a a volver a ser la misma de antes, es más tengo cada vez la idea más incierta de ello y es que es así. Dolor, dolor y mas dolor es lo que he causado estos últimos largos años de lucha y para que?
Para aveces enviarlo todo a la mierda, hacer daño a los que más me quieren y lo peor de todo, hacérmelo a mí. Pero que coño? Que me lo han hecho a mí! Las consecuencias de lo que yo hago son actos de los mismos a los cuales y respondo y responderé según la persona. Que aveces sea injusto, si, pero es lo que hay. Yo también tengo mi límite, mi vaso de cristal que esta a punto de derramarse y que por desgracia aveces voy dando sorbos pero nunca llego a vaciarlo ni por la mitad, luego siempre ocurre la misma situación de siempre, la misma desesperación y miedo por hacer las cosas y eso da el hecho a cagarla otra vez y otra vez y otra vez, si es como si me gustara vivir al límite, que esté a punto de derramar-se mi vaso de agua..y que me acabe empapando yo. Odio que ahora desconfie de muchas cosas y empieze siempre a pensar lo peor, pensamientos de culpabilidad y más de ellos, y la gran parte solamente para joderme la existencia un poco más aún.  Quiero que viva esa parte de mí que cree en las personas, en los momentos que han pasado y que pasan y que pueden hacer feliz sin tener que sufrir por ello y llegar a sentir miedo. Quiero que cuando mire a los ojos a las personas que están conmigo vea que no van a traicionarme y que me darán lo mismo o al menos lo intentaran, de lo que yo puedo ofrecer-les  a su manera y que.. esa parte de mí en la que ya ha perdido la esperanza y que quiere tirar la toalla pueda emprender un viaje del olvido y que cuando regrese que sea con una sincera sonrisa en los labios.




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